Inthehighdesert
Well-Known Member
I didn‘t see the young man crying. Saw a young man dejected he made a mistake and was upset about it. As for the rest, yawn.
Hello; I was raised under the same philosophy as you. Men were not to cry in public. Children and boys could do so, but not men. I did not have to wonder if it made sense back in the day as such was universally accepted.
Now there are changed attitudes among many making such acceptable. I will need to think about the ramifications of the new thinking as it does not seem to be something without negative impacts. The crying incident will follow this man for some time to come.
One example being how the TV cameras focused on the incident. I imagine some TV directors instinctively recognized immediately it was something to play up for the small screen. Small screen drama not meant to be sympathetic with the young man. Indicates to me an understanding of how a general social norm was broken. A man driving a F1 car should not be seen crying like a boy.
Back to how I was raised for a moment. While I can understand why the lad was upset with himself for wrecking on a warmup lap, I also found the crying a wrong reaction for someone entering the top tier of formula racing. Guess that makes me land on the same side as Vlad.
I don't care what women of the "strong, independent" type, educated at the corporate diversity-and-inclusion school, may say. A man crying in public is a disgrace. Period.
You wrecked the car? Tough luck. Get out of it, own up to your mistake and move on. Crying like a baby is pathetic. But yeah, it will earn you the love of tough, "modern" women, who adore men who can "express their feelings". Yuck...
I guess I was raised in a different world, where men used to be men.
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If believing this, and daring say it in public, makes me a disgraceful human being, so be it. I can live with that.
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