i need high school chick advice please

[Muhnopoly]

Look, I know we are all being a bit tough on you. Dont take it the wrong way in any way shape or form (I know your not but just saying) but the #1 thing I'm sure alot of us hate the most is when someone ask for advice and doesn't take it. Waste of your time, and my time.
What's the point right ? I'm personally not that much older then you, I'm 25. I'm sure other people here are too. But I'm married, own place, own multiple cars, full time job. I've been there done that, you don't need/want her. That's the end of it. You want a girl that's gonna be honest up front with you otherwise your gonna end up with a girl that snaps nuddies to other guys while your busy taking a dookie on the toilet. You don't want that bud.

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[Dfeeds]

ill try bro

It's for your own mental sanity. I've been there and through it all. The married woman who didn't say she was married. The girl who said she had a boyfriend but showed interest. The psycho stalker who got pregnant and tried to say it was mine. The "friend" who will have sex but then say "we're only friends I don't see you like that" the next day, rinse and repeat... and many more. It never ends well. I'll even be honest, in every scenario I listed I had sex with the girl. It still never ended well because I wasn't mature enough to just step back and kept pushing.

The messed up situations didn't stop but I learned to just go with it and not become emotionally attached. Some of the women I was with were completely nuts with the games they would play but all I wanted was to get laid. There were some situations where I actually got to watch some poor sap do exactly what I'd do in the past, while I was actively hooking up with the girl. My favorite is the $150 bouquet of flowers that was delivered while we were having sex. The most money I ever spent on her was the gas to get to house. It was hysterical. Situations like that really made things clear at how not worth it all the crap was.

My current girlfriend, who I've been with for half a decade, had none of that. I never once questioned if she had interest. She never hesitated to respond, would text first, never said "I'm busy" without a follow up date, and never missed a moment to tell me she liked me. The oddest part is that she's subjectively the most attractive girl I've ever been with (the only one to have my friends drunkenly apologize for staring at her too much). Even dating, we've never once exchanged passwords or gone through each other's phones. I gravitated toward a lot of... mentally unstable women so being with one who was secure with herself was such an eye opening experience.


You'll do what you're gonna do. Hell I probably wouldn't have listened at your age either but hopefully some of what we're telling you will make sense and leave a mark. I'm 29 myself. So a good age gap but not old enough to where my highschool experience was vastly different than yours.

 

[EmCel]

 

[LOL WUT]

I can’t believe it’s taken 16 pages for someone to give this advice.

 

[Mr whiskers5.0]

Look, I know we are all being a bit tough on you. Dont take it the wrong way in any way shape or form (I know your not but just saying) but the #1 thing I'm sure alot of us hate the most is when someone ask for advice and doesn't take it. Waste of your time, and my time.
What's the point right ? I'm personally not that much older then you, I'm 25. I'm sure other people here are too. But I'm married, own place, own multiple cars, full time job. I've been there done that, you don't need/want her. That's the end of it. You want a girl that's gonna be honest up front with you otherwise your gonna end up with a girl that snaps nuddies to other guys while your busy taking a dookie on the toilet. You don't want that bud.

yeah your right bro but just i look at it like this she wasnt honest but it was about somthing small. i can deal with little lies but yeah i dont want someone who lies about big shit

 

[Chef jpd]

Little lies are a precursor to big lies.
If he bought the small stuff, Ha Ha!!

 

[Mr whiskers5.0]

It's for your own mental sanity. I've been there and through it all. The married woman who didn't say she was married. The girl who said she had a boyfriend but showed interest. The psycho stalker who got pregnant and tried to say it was mine. The "friend" who will have sex but then say "we're only friends I don't see you like that" the next day, rinse and repeat... and many more. It never ends well. I'll even be honest, in every scenario I listed I had sex with the girl. It still never ended well because I wasn't mature enough to just step back and kept pushing.

The messed up situations didn't stop but I learned to just go with it and not become emotionally attached. Some of the women I was with were completely nuts with the games they would play but all I wanted was to get laid. There were some situations where I actually got to watch some poor sap do exactly what I'd do in the past, while I was actively hooking up with the girl. My favorite is the $150 bouquet of flowers that was delivered while we were having sex. The most money I ever spent on her was the gas to get to house. It was hysterical. Situations like that really made things clear at how not worth it all the crap was.

My current girlfriend, who I've been with for half a decade, had none of that. I never once questioned if she had interest. She never hesitated to respond, would text first, never said "I'm busy" without a follow up date, and never missed a moment to tell me she liked me. The oddest part is that she's subjectively the most attractive girl I've ever been with (the only one to have my friends drunkenly apologize for staring at her too much). Even dating, we've never once exchanged passwords or gone through each other's phones. I gravitated toward a lot of... mentally unstable women so being with one who was secure with herself was such an eye opening experience.


You'll do what you're gonna do. Hell I probably wouldn't have listened at your age either but hopefully some of what we're telling you will make sense and leave a mark. I'm 29 myself. So a good age gap but not old enough to where my highschool experience was vastly different than yours.

damn dude

 

[Muhnopoly]

yeah your right bro but just i look at it like this she wasnt honest but it was about somthing small. i can deal with little lies but yeah i dont want someone who lies about big shit

Listen to what you just said, it was something small. So why lie about it? Think of a snowball rolling in the snow. It gets bigger over time right ? Same with lies. They get bigger and bigger. Your young bro, The fact that your this caught up in the situation is not good. You can literally have any girl yet your fixated on this highschool girl who said she has a boyfriend. The funny thing is, look at girls from a different Highschool, bet your gonna say damn the girls at my school are ugly trolls. Plenty of fish out there my guy

 

[Mr whiskers5.0]

Listen to what you just said, it was something small. So why lie about it? Think of a snowball rolling in the snow. It gets bigger over time right ? Same with lies. They get bigger and bigger. Your young bro, The fact that your this caught up in the situation is not good. You can literally have any girl yet your fixated on this highschool girl who said she has a boyfriend. The funny thing is, look at girls from a different Highschool, bet your gonna say damn the girls at my school are ugly trolls. Plenty of fish out there my guy

yeah your right theres a few other chicks i like at my highschool that are single but i been set this chick last couple days

 

[Mr whiskers5.0]

It's for your own mental sanity. I've been there and through it all. The married woman who didn't say she was married. The girl who said she had a boyfriend but showed interest. The psycho stalker who got pregnant and tried to say it was mine. The "friend" who will have sex but then say "we're only friends I don't see you like that" the next day, rinse and repeat... and many more. It never ends well. I'll even be honest, in every scenario I listed I had sex with the girl. It still never ended well because I wasn't mature enough to just step back and kept pushing.

The messed up situations didn't stop but I learned to just go with it and not become emotionally attached. Some of the women I was with were completely nuts with the games they would play but all I wanted was to get laid. There were some situations where I actually got to watch some poor sap do exactly what I'd do in the past, while I was actively hooking up with the girl. My favorite is the $150 bouquet of flowers that was delivered while we were having sex. The most money I ever spent on her was the gas to get to house. It was hysterical. Situations like that really made things clear at how not worth it all the crap was.

My current girlfriend, who I've been with for half a decade, had none of that. I never once questioned if she had interest. She never hesitated to respond, would text first, never said "I'm busy" without a follow up date, and never missed a moment to tell me she liked me. The oddest part is that she's subjectively the most attractive girl I've ever been with (the only one to have my friends drunkenly apologize for staring at her too much). Even dating, we've never once exchanged passwords or gone through each other's phones. I gravitated toward a lot of... mentally unstable women so being with one who was secure with herself was such an eye opening experience.


You'll do what you're gonna do. Hell I probably wouldn't have listened at your age either but hopefully some of what we're telling you will make sense and leave a mark. I'm 29 myself. So a good age gap but not old enough to where my highschool experience was vastly different than yours.

what if i wanna just be friends with her ?

 

[Mr whiskers5.0]

It's for your own mental sanity. I've been there and through it all. The married woman who didn't say she was married. The girl who said she had a boyfriend but showed interest. The psycho stalker who got pregnant and tried to say it was mine. The "friend" who will have sex but then say "we're only friends I don't see you like that" the next day, rinse and repeat... and many more. It never ends well. I'll even be honest, in every scenario I listed I had sex with the girl. It still never ended well because I wasn't mature enough to just step back and kept pushing.

The messed up situations didn't stop but I learned to just go with it and not become emotionally attached. Some of the women I was with were completely nuts with the games they would play but all I wanted was to get laid. There were some situations where I actually got to watch some poor sap do exactly what I'd do in the past, while I was actively hooking up with the girl. My favorite is the $150 bouquet of flowers that was delivered while we were having sex. The most money I ever spent on her was the gas to get to house. It was hysterical. Situations like that really made things clear at how not worth it all the crap was.

My current girlfriend, who I've been with for half a decade, had none of that. I never once questioned if she had interest. She never hesitated to respond, would text first, never said "I'm busy" without a follow up date, and never missed a moment to tell me she liked me. The oddest part is that she's subjectively the most attractive girl I've ever been with (the only one to have my friends drunkenly apologize for staring at her too much). Even dating, we've never once exchanged passwords or gone through each other's phones. I gravitated toward a lot of... mentally unstable women so being with one who was secure with herself was such an eye opening experience.


You'll do what you're gonna do. Hell I probably wouldn't have listened at your age either but hopefully some of what we're telling you will make sense and leave a mark. I'm 29 myself. So a good age gap but not old enough to where my highschool experience was vastly different than yours.

what if i just wanna be friends with her?

 

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[EmCel]

yeah your right theres a few other chicks i like at my highschool that are single but i been set this chick last couple days

You’ll have plenty of opportunities with girls. You have a lot going for you at your age but stay focused on your education before anything. Just be a good boy and hit those

 

[Mr whiskers5.0]

You’ll have plenty of opportunities with girls. You have a lot going for you at your age but stay focused on your education before anything. Just be a good boy and hit those

ill try doing both

 

[Tacswa]

i know this has nothing to do with mustangs but i need advice. so im from ohio and live in ohio im 17 junior in high school and theres this cute and hot ass chick i like her names addy and someone said she has a boyfriend. shes in one my classes and almost every i time i look at her i notice her lookin at me and thats how its been since this school year started. i dont know her or anything ive only talked to her once for like 2 minutes. now yesterday when i was in that class with her my buddy next to me said ¨I know someone who likes you¨ and i said huh who and he said ¨that one¨ and pointed to her and i looked back at her when he pointed at her and she was kinda laughing/smiling and i kept acting normal but in my head i was saying OHHH SHIT HOLY SHIT like that reaction when you 500 bucks on 1 buck scratch off. i didnt know what to do i knew i wanted to talk to her but i didnt know what to say. and then fast forward to today in that class like normal i couldnt help but turn my head and look at her every 30 seconds and a few times she looked right in my eyes and i heard the chick next to addy say ooohhh he likes you hes looking and then i also heard that chick say to addy you should talk to him. i wanna talk to her but dont know what to say or do or if i should just walk up to her and say somthin like so you like me or wassup so im kinda wondering if yall could help me and give some advice on what i should do

You should concentrate on English class learning proper grammar and punctuation.

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