Why Are Women Always Angry?

[Genxer]

I must be blessed. She and I almost never have disagreements.

Been married thirty years here. A woman could bring her anger into a marriage, and if so that is for her to work out. You can't cure that, but you also don't want to be a trigger. When you think about saying something snarky, hold your tongue and walk away to consider how it will make her feel. Not every subject is even worth an argument. If you are causing her anger, then a little reflection on your words and actions are in order. They pay more attention to your words than you do, I guarantee it.

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[Deleted member 35644]

My wife will get on a feminist kick occasionally and I usually end it by asking a question like "When are you gonna take out the trash then?" or "Are you gonna cut the grass?" Screams for equality when what the evil feminists (not to be confused with legit feminists wanting to actually be equal) really want is to be above males. To some extent I view racism the same way but that's a different forum entirely lol. I'm all for equality but that means you're killing 50% of the spiders and I'm doing 50% of the dish washing.

It's too bad you have to defend yourself in your own household. And it's sad that the defense is logic.

 

[Deleted member 35644]

I must be blessed. She and I almost never have disagreements.

Been married thirty years here. A woman could bring her anger into a marriage, and if so that is for her to work out. You can't cure that, but you also don't want to be a trigger. When you think about saying something snarky, hold your tongue and walk away to consider how it will make her feel. Not every subject is even worth an argument. If you are causing her anger, then a little reflection on your words and actions are in order. They pay more attention to your words than you do, I guarantee it.

It's very common to hear "he's secure with his manhood", but you never hear "she's secure with her womanhood". It should be said more often. Your wife is clearly secure, if she rarely, if ever, switches to defense mode and starts screaming.

 

[Sivi70980]

It's too bad you have to defend yourself in your own household. And it's sad that the defense is logic.

She rarely gets like that and it's only when she hangs out with certain "friends" of hers that, you guessed it, are disliked by me just as much as they dislike me. That crowd is mostly man hating lesbians that would be better served having their own planet to hate life on. I point this stuff out to her as well as the fact we're even discussing these things only when she comes back from being around them. It's down to about once a year now, they're on the small list of people not allowed to the house.

 

[Deleted member 35644]

She rarely gets like that and it's only when she hangs out with certain "friends" of hers that, you guessed it, are disliked by me just as much as they dislike me. That crowd is mostly man hating lesbians that would be better served having their own planet to hate life on. I point this stuff out to her as well as the fact we're even discussing these things only when she comes back from being around them. It's down to about once a year now, they're on the small list of people not allowed to the house.

It's dangerous to try to pick her friends, but on the flip side, her personality sounds like it would benefit from the removal of some toxicity.

 

[Sivi70980]

It's dangerous to try to pick her friends, but on the flip side, her personality sounds like it would benefit from the removal of some toxicity.

I tend to let her do her because that is who I'm in love with after all. Really it's the college she went to, full of dependents who look for anything that makes them stand out to be unique little snowflakes. 80% of the people there don't own vehicles and are irrationally environmental and/or LGBQ absolutely hating other genders/races/species without even experiencing any of it. Puts a negative light on those people legitimately trying to better their standing in their community. I believe the guy in a mini skirt with his balls hanging free also deserves to be happy and really, since I don't want to see free hanging balls, I just don't look and go about my day. Unfortunately most of my experiences with these things are me being attacked for not giving self entitled assholes the attention they want so my attitude is firmly planted on "go fuck yourself".

Soooooo I might have issues with the above to work out.....Anyways back on some sort of topic. I truly believe a woman wants to be treated as an equal, dominated, and put on a pedestal all at the same time and or any combination 2 of the 3 or just 1 of those at any given moment and they're subject to change in a heart beat.

 

[Deleted member 35644]

I believe the guy in a mini skirt with his balls hanging free also deserves to be happy and really, since I don't want to see free hanging balls, I just don't look and go about my day.

Well, all I can say is kudos to you for being this guy. The alternative is to be ugly about everyone's differences, and you don't want to be that guy. Trying to change someone is rarely advisable, so you're definitely using your head. Just promise yourself that you won't allow yourself to be mistreated. A lot of people (men included) allow their relationships to slip down that slope without realizing it, until they're in hell on earth.

 

[mindo389]

A former secretary in my company's office had a sign on the outside of her partition: "Warning: I am a high performance bitch. I can go from 0 to bitch in less than 1 second. Sometimes the bitch switch sticks." We were warned.

 

[Sivi70980]

Well, all I can say is kudos to you for being this guy. The alternative is to be ugly about everyone's differences, and you don't want to be that guy. Trying to change someone is rarely advisable, so you're definitely using your head. Just promise yourself that you won't allow yourself to be mistreated. A lot of people (men included) allow their relationships to slip down that slope without realizing it, until they're in hell on earth.

And that was my first marriage. A sled down the snowy mountain of unhappiness into hell. 5 years of my life that is all to good a lesson to never forget. My wife now had a similar experience with her first husband so we see eye to eye on most things.

 

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[samd1351]

Gotta love a good Al Bundy meme!

 

[Shadow277]

and theoretically you're supposed to be on the same page WRT ethics, morals, and treatment of each other, or at least the desired standard.

We are. The means of getting there are different. That's an issue.

 

[Shifting_Gears]

Gotta love a good Al Bundy meme!

99.9999% of Bundy’s jokes and humor wouldn’t be allowed on TV today. However, we can look at tits and ass and cursing is now all good.

Interesting world.

 

[Questortapes74]

99.9999% of Bundy’s jokes and humor wouldn’t be allowed on TV today. However, we can look at tits and ass and cursing is now all good.

Interesting world.

Yes sir. IMHO, the popular culture outrage towards the cliches of the past is merely an attempt to placate the discontent (whatever faction they proclaim) while missing the 800 pound gorilla standing front and center. That gorilla is the pornography industry of which has grown at a level that is beyond reproach and in part has ties into one of the top 3 black market enterprises, human trafficking. Interesting times indeed.

 

[Shadow277]

99.9999% of Bundy’s jokes and humor wouldn’t be allowed on TV today. However, we can look at tits and ass and cursing is now all good.

Interesting world.

In the name of LGBTQ+BBQ^2

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