Same here. I toughed it out and am about the same around 95% smooth on the 1-2 shift now. My rational is Ford put it in like that for a reason, and I just had to learn to drive it.
I used the Diode Dynamics for the backup and rear side marker lights. I got the 80 lumens for the backup, and the red for the side marker. the side marker lights look so much better than stock.
Also includes the motion sensors in the car. Enhanced Security Package (Corrected). When you turn off the ignition the display gives you the option of arming "all sensors" or not. I haven't played with it, but I assume it refers to the motions sensors on or off.
get a little over 15mpg when driving around town only. The last 2,046 km, shows just over 21mpg. That's a mix of city, highway and mountain driving (pushing).
Another vote for cylinder head temp. I usually let it settle for a few minutes (90C), as my understanding is the oil takes a little longer to get to operating temp.