I'm running SVE 350R 10" wheels up front with 285/35/19's. Rears are 305's. No Poke or spacers...plug and play. Pick of fronts, the wheels are slightly turned.
If you look at the lock 'Stalk' inside the car that you would pull up with your fingers to unlock the door manually, it should be illuminated in red when the alarm is active.
Gotta love the stuff you see on Florida roads...like almost crashing to avoid a 6ft step ladder in the fast lane on the freeway at 80 mph. Good luck with your issues.