Here are the components I used to upgrade my 400a Shaker. This sounds absolutely fantastic -- the sound hits you in the soul. It's prompted me to binge-buy re-mastered demo CDs like Brothers In Arms.
Front speakers: Focal PS 165 F3
Rear deck: Focal PC 165
Sub: JBL CS-110LGTW
Amp: Alpine PDX V9...
Mouser.com will sell individuals.
The gray one is part number 34729-0161 (male) and the females are 34690-0161 (vertical) and 34691-0161 (right angle header).
The 14-pin brown connector has caveats. The 34927-0142 male end is on order until May 26, 2015.
The female end is not stocked...
Sucks, man. But this will work out once the banks do their handshake. Were you able to get ahold of your dealer today? They must want to get this wrapped up, too.
It's great to see so many in the 50 years apart club! I'll be joining in about a month when my 2015 Competition Orange GT comes home to meet her 1965 Honey Gold sibling.