HoosierDaddy
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I'm handling my father's estate and he left a sizable inheritance to his 4 grandchildren. But one has been long estranged from the family. I've found a few arrest records for minor offenses that point to him living on the streets. He has/had a Facebook account but hasn't posted anything or responded to any messages for years. Likewise with some other social media accounts.
The family is hoping the inheritance might help turn his life around via a managed trust. One problem is my father's will/trust specifies that beneficiaries who are estranged from the family are excluded. So, ending the estrangement eliminates several potential problems. Not looking to circumvent my father's wishes but the will/trust are many decades old, the estrangement clause was clearly boiler plate and my father and I had checked out rumors about his whereabouts whenever we heard any trying to find him ourselves in the past few years.
Looking for ideas for contacting him preferably face to face. I know there are some LEOs on the forum and maybe civilians who've been in a similar situation.
Done the obvious things like checking jails and wanted to check hospitals and homeless shelters, but there are a LOT and so far many won't/can't facilitate someone finding a person.
The family is hoping the inheritance might help turn his life around via a managed trust. One problem is my father's will/trust specifies that beneficiaries who are estranged from the family are excluded. So, ending the estrangement eliminates several potential problems. Not looking to circumvent my father's wishes but the will/trust are many decades old, the estrangement clause was clearly boiler plate and my father and I had checked out rumors about his whereabouts whenever we heard any trying to find him ourselves in the past few years.
Looking for ideas for contacting him preferably face to face. I know there are some LEOs on the forum and maybe civilians who've been in a similar situation.
Done the obvious things like checking jails and wanted to check hospitals and homeless shelters, but there are a LOT and so far many won't/can't facilitate someone finding a person.
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