Dseck63
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I poked around some of the posts here to see if there was anything related and didn't see anything so thought I'd have at it.
So in light of my recent decision to divorce my wife because she decided to to cheat on me with an old high school classmate (mind you we are in our 30's) I decided to move on myself and found myself talking to someone at work. Cute girl, we vibed well and ultimately I thought things were going well. However I find myself now in the friendzone, and what's more troubling about this is it appears to be because much of what her friends that work with her had to say.
-He has a kid
-He was married
-They might get back together
-He may not be over her
-He hasn't finalized it yet
blah blah blah.
After me ego was trashed by my wife it was much easier to pick myself up and dust this off so I could once again move on but she was adamant that we remain friends. Having no problem with this I've held up my end of the deal however I find it strange that she feels its necessary to text/call daily, and also do so at times that are less than normal.
At 5am I want my f*cking coffee and that's about it, and 10pm I'm trying to get my ass to bed. Not text back and forth for shits ang giggles. Especially when I've talked to her throughout the day.
My question to you all is have you ever been put here to be tested? Because that is what it is starting to feel like. I haven't known her long, only since the beginning of January. My biggest mistake was shitting where I eat since I have to see her regularly, figured if this were the case I could continue to play along and see where this goes or otherwise simply start to find a way to shake her without being a dick about it. Thoughts?
So in light of my recent decision to divorce my wife because she decided to to cheat on me with an old high school classmate (mind you we are in our 30's) I decided to move on myself and found myself talking to someone at work. Cute girl, we vibed well and ultimately I thought things were going well. However I find myself now in the friendzone, and what's more troubling about this is it appears to be because much of what her friends that work with her had to say.
-He has a kid
-He was married
-They might get back together
-He may not be over her
-He hasn't finalized it yet
blah blah blah.
After me ego was trashed by my wife it was much easier to pick myself up and dust this off so I could once again move on but she was adamant that we remain friends. Having no problem with this I've held up my end of the deal however I find it strange that she feels its necessary to text/call daily, and also do so at times that are less than normal.
At 5am I want my f*cking coffee and that's about it, and 10pm I'm trying to get my ass to bed. Not text back and forth for shits ang giggles. Especially when I've talked to her throughout the day.
My question to you all is have you ever been put here to be tested? Because that is what it is starting to feel like. I haven't known her long, only since the beginning of January. My biggest mistake was shitting where I eat since I have to see her regularly, figured if this were the case I could continue to play along and see where this goes or otherwise simply start to find a way to shake her without being a dick about it. Thoughts?
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