The link below may help you, number 2
https://www.tascaparts.com/oem-parts/ford-suspension-cross-member-mount-bolt-w717827s900?c=Zz1zdXNwZW5zaW9uJnM9c3VzcGVuc2lvbi1tb3VudGluZyZsPTMmbj1Bc3NlbWJsaWVzIFBhZ2UmYT1mb3JkJm89bXVzdGFuZyZ5PTIwMTkmdD1idWxsaXR0JmU9NS0wbC12OC1nYXM%3D
I know its a bit late for you, I have brought a box of the ones below a few years ago.
https://autofastenersandclips.com/products/auveco-19653-hex-head-sems-tapping-screw-m4-2-1-41-x-30mm
I replaced my DRL globes with Diode Dynamics P13W HP48 LED Bulbs
and the fog light globes with Diode Dynamics H8 SLF LED Bulbs (pair) YELLOW
they have 4th July specials on at the moment.
https://www.diodedynamics.com/led-bulbs/foglight-drl.html
fog lights on
I got the D3S with the ballast and cable from a auto electrician local shop the guy modifies the base of the light to fit in the our light housing. (involves notching out a slot in the flange)
I removed the front bumper to take out the light assembly to install the DS3,s and ballast.
Hi David, I did not go ahead with the idea of the driving lights. instead I upgraded the headlight globes to 35w, as I don't do much long distance driving these days.
I ran into the same issue with the width of the plate when I got mine from American car craft back in 2016,
I took mine to a local sheet metal fabrication shop and ask if he could guillotine about 5 mm off each side, the guy was a bit hesitant to do as he was waiting for a new cutting blade...