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The dreaded friendzone.. Who has been there?

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Isn’t there a saying that goes along the line of don’t shit where ya eat? (Or something to that effect)

Now you have those very awkward moments when she sees you or visa versa...

Time for another job... LOL
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There's nothing you can SAY to get yourself out of the friendzone, but you absolutely can get yourself out if you play it right.

1) Minimal communication, withdraw nearly all of your attention and remove the validation it gives her.
2) When she probes you, just give her a look of confusion, say we're friends and that you like it this way (now she thinks you friendzoned her).
3) End conversations early, on your terms, with a look or a smirk (think James bond in Casino Royale)
4) Continue to meet, see and date other women. Girls for whatever reason pick up that scent and it makes them want to compete for you.
5) Take your time, do nothing over text, it's always in person.


1 of 2 things will happen. She will either come after you hard (but understand it is to satisfy her thirst, not yours) or she will move on and find someone else to validate her. If it's the second, well, that's fine because you've already been out here pursuing other women. Good luck and don't let it become a focal point of your life
I was going to comment on the thread but seems there is another pro present.
Women want what they can't have. Be a slight dick, but not an asshole and do what this guy says. Go out for a drink, and then you'll be dong the Texas Two Step.
 
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I was going to comment on the thread but seems there is another pro present.
Women want what they can't have. Be a slight dick, but not an asshole and do what this guy says. Go out for a drink, and then you'll be dong the Texas Two Step.
I followed his advice so well that it brought me to the point where idgaf. I've been really consumed in my work and quite honestly I haven't seen her in a week and a half and this is without trying to avoid her. I'm finding myself now not only wanting to make time for her but I'm also sifting through the bullshit with other women as well.

After being in a 16 year relationship and getting out here talking to other women I can spot the nonsense a mile away. These women aren't as different from one another as they want to believe.
 
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I followed his advice so well that it brought me to the point where idgaf. I've been really consumed in my work and quite honestly I haven't seen her in a week and a half and this is without trying to avoid her. I'm finding myself now not only wanting to make time for her but I'm also sifting through the bullshit with other women as well.

After being in a 16 year relationship and getting out here talking to other women I can spot the nonsense a mile away. These women aren't as different from one another as they want to believe.
My man! That's what I'm talking about. Good for you :cheers:
 
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I’m happily married, but there are sometimes I wish I would’ve taken the single route and just rely on hookers and cocaine for my jollies.
I got the email that someone responded and shit you not I cried laughing so hard, not the first time I've heard this either :lol:
 

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I’m happily married, but there are sometimes I wish I would’ve taken the single route and just rely on hookers and cocaine for my jollies.
I married a woman who's into all sorts of weird shit, so there's never a dull moment.
 

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Don't leave us hanging...
I don't want to derail this thread too much, and the majority of it is probably against forum rules to post details... So, Urban Dictionary is your friend here...

1, 2, mohallo.
 

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I don't want to derail this thread too much, and the majority of it is probably against forum rules to post details... So, Urban Dictionary is your friend here...

1, 2, mohallo.
Love it! Thanks Bro - have to find me a girl like that:cheers:
 

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Love it! Thanks Bro - have to find me a girl like that:cheers:
She also has a College education, a good job, keeps the house disturbingly clean, and raises our kids not to be little shits.
 
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She also has a College education, a good job, keeps the house disturbingly clean, and raises our kids not to be little shits.
You hit the jackpot!!:headbang::headbang::cheers::cheers::cheers:
 
 




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