Best 20" Wheel&Tire Options $2500 or less out the door?

I want new wheels and tires. Who wants to help? Here's what I'm looking for:

Wheels

1. 20 inches.
2. Staggered set up. (20-10/9...maybe?)
3. Preferably no need for spacers.
4. Something that won't mess with plans for lowering.
5. Nothing all black.
6. Nothing all chrome.
7. No funky colors. I'm a simpleton. I like grey.

I kind of like these...

http://www.americanmuscle.com/shelby-charcoal-alcoa-20x10-2015.html

...but I'm not sold on them yet. Too much grey for Magnetic?

Tires

1. All season. I live in New York. Daily driver.
2. As wide as safely possible.

I assume for tires it'd be the Michelin's but I'd love to hear other experiences.

Any help is appreciated! Thanks!

Jeff

As far as the wheels I recommend TSW Bathurst in gunmetal. For the price/look/weight it's one of the best deals out there. I am currently running 20x10 in the front and 20x9 in rear and no spacers required. This set up will run about $1,500.

https://www.getyourwheels.com/view-wheel/tsw-wheels/tsw-bathurst-gloss-gunmetal-rotary-forged

You can also do 9.5 in the front with no spacers however if you want to do 10 in the front it will require 5mm spacer.

As far as the tires I would recommend Michellin PSS A/S 285 in the back and 255 in the front. They will run around $1,000 with the installation.
https://www.tirerack.com/cart/HoldingArea.jsp

You can also go wider in the back but not sure what brand to recommend as Michelin only makes 285 All season at least according to Tire Rack.

Here is mine
http://www.mustang6g.com/forums/showthread.php?t=76712

Those TSW wheels are sweet. Your car looks great! Thanks for the suggestion. Definitely going with the Michelins, though, regardless of the wheel. Best all season tire out there.

Jeff

I love my Verde Insignias. I know you said no black, so they do make them in a "Hyper Silver" which looks like a polished silver look. Really clean if you ask me.

I paid $2080 before from Discount Tire, since I have a friend that is a manager at one here, and also got more money back in rebates.

Fronts are 20x10 +45, rears 20x11 +52 with Nitto NT555G2 in 275/35/20 and 315/35/20. I'm lowered on BMR SP080 springs and have no issues rubbing, just had to add some positive camber to the front so they don't rub on the struts.